What You Think You Know About BDSM

What you think you know about BDSM or Kink is probably wrong...

Most people I know learn about kink through sensationalized media. Leather. Whips. Chains. Ball gags. Someone tough towering over someone weak.

People confuse DOMINEERING with DOMINANT.

To be DOMINEERING is to be a tyrant, an arrogant narcissist. Someone who is overcompensating for insecurities by putting on THE TOUGH MASK.  The Tyrant always has to PROVE their authority because they fear their own weakness.

To be DOMINANT is to confident, competent, and hold authority. To be a wise guide and collaborator. The DOMINANT is emPOWERed. There is nothing to prove when we own our own competence.

People confuse CODEPENDENCY with SUBMISSION.

To be CODEPENDENT is to always worry if one is good enough. To over give to get love. To focus on others because it is too painful to look at oneself. To always have to prove one's worth.

What most people don't know is that the ROOTS of what we play with in the sensation, roles, and power exchange of BDSM goes back over 20,000 years to our ANCIENT ANCESTORS.

Hear the drums. Feel the earths heart beat. Our blood, breath, and bone in harmony with the spheres, our offering to our people, our healing of our world.

In THE SHAMANIC KINK IMMERSION WEEKLONG  IN PERSON (and briefly in The BASICS OF BDSM INTRO ZOOMINAR) we learn, study experiment, design and practice with these ritual building blocks.

Ready to immerse yourself in ancestral healing, rewiring new timelines of possibility, natural trance states, empowering choices, healing from trauma, the use of the body drum, cacao and kink, and profound experience of community?

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